Lots of people approach their Christmas celebration like that. They have their idea of what the perfect Christmas should be like and anything short of that leaves them feeling disappointed. For many getting the perfect gift, having all the kids home Christmas Eve, having the yard and house decorated to the max are essential to having a really great Christmas.
No wonder so many are depressed around Christmas time – their expectations for the holidays have not been met. They have no job and no money for paying the bills let alone buying gifts. They are in the hospital recovering from surgery. Their spouse is overseas in a war zone. There will be an empty chair at the dinner table this year because Dad past away last March. You fill in the blank.
Isn’t that the way most people approach their lives? They are happy and joyous only when their lives are perfect. When their job goes well, they feel good, the kids are doing well in school, etc. life is good. When these expectations are not meant, their joy and happiness flies out the window.
We can sympathize can’t we? How can someone be happy who comes back from serving overseas after losing a limb? How can parents be anything but filled with despair when their five year old dies from cancer? What reason is there to smile when we are spending our first Christmas alone since our spouse ran off with the secretary at Thanksgiving? We’ve lost our job, our health, a loved one. Don’t all these things make it impossible to find joy and happiness especially at Christmas time?
They do if our lives are not centered on the Lord. Knowing Jesus, knowing his love and forgiveness turns things around. When we know that he will turn every trial into a blessing, the loss of our job or a loved one, while difficult to endure, can be seen as something good. God’s primary concern is not how many gifts we have under the tree or how much money we have in the bank or how big our house is. His concern is our soul.
We have every reason to rejoice when we believe that the baby born in Bethlehem is our Savior. We have every reason to be happy when we know the peace that comes from knowing that our sins are forgiven through Christ. We have every reason to look to the future with hope because God is watching over us and has promised us eternal life with all its blessings.
Our lives may not be easy. In fact, they may be down-right difficult at times. Yet our lives can be perfect, our Christmas celebration complete, if we know Jesus as our Savior. Only he can make your Christmas a truly merry one.